I feel it in my spirit that a date is coming…I
mean I have an awesome dress (or dresses SMH), cute shoes, new hair coming this
weekend so I’m ready LOL!
With that being said I needed some advice on what to
do because it’s been a really, really LONG
time since I’ve had a date. Cue the violin!
I need to know how I can be impressive on a first
date.
Him: Conversation and not being all uptight. Someone that is very engaged
& just not letting me carry the date.
Me: Hmmm I am a talker but as I
said before I am super shy. This journey to 40 has to get me out of that ASAP
geez.
So, when I'm nervous one of two things happen. Either I just don't say anything or I can't stop talking. Which I assume could be pretty
bad. So, basically when I’m nervous I’m either quiet or I talk to much there
is no in between.
I asked how do
you expect the conversation to go on the first date.
Him: The typical getting to know one another, likes, dislikes, career goals,
travel goals, life goals. What are you looking for in dating? Are you looking
for a potential mate or just someone to hang out with & no commitment
anytime soon?
Me:
I think I can handle that…not to hard at all. Heck I can just point him
to the blog. Well, maybe not he may freak out LOL!
Now not that I
would ever be this…but I know I have some readers who are very confident and go
after what they like so I asked if a woman being the aggressor is attractive or
unattractive?
Him: Certainly attractive but know when I'm not interested and cease pursuing
me.
Me: This will probably never be me but I
hope it was helpful to someone.
In case you
were wondering there are no prospects but I just feel like it’s time and I am
keeping hope alive. Pray for me…if we all touch and agree it just might happen!
There is still
a bit more from the single guy which includes two questions I think every woman
should know no matter what your age so stay tune for part 4!
Signed,
Almost 40
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