Thursday, December 29, 2016

I Had A Major Epiphany Over Christmas!!


I know I said the month of December we should put real life aside but something happened over Christmas and I have to share.

Definition of Perception: An awareness of things through the physical senses, especially sight!

My weight has always been an issue or at least I can’t ever remember a time I didn’t think about it and I think…NO… I know it has shaped my life and not in a good way.

Based on how I see myself I have been a chunkster forever…maybe lose a pound or two here or there but over all chubby. And in high school I really thought I was fat,that carried to college and now.

Thursday, December 22, 2016

Feeling Inspired…

Black Girl Magic!!!
Oprah and the FLOTUS interview this week gave me so much life. I had all the feels. It was something about seeing those two powerful black women just chatting and hanging out that was so inspiring. Just watching them made me want to be better. The interview was nothing short of amazing but one of the things I realized is they are just like me they started a path like mine and they worked their butts off to be where they are now. And they both are truly walking in their purpose.

As you know I turn 40 next year…shocker LOL and I feel like by then, heck by now I should be out here being great and making big moves doing what I love but I’m not.  I’m not sure what it was but seeing them on primetime TV made me see a new world. Yes, we have dude as our president (I’m working on the go low we go high thing) but there is still so much to be excited and hopeful about…I don’t know it just made me want to really be awesome.

Thursday, December 15, 2016


Here’s the deal…life is going to continue to happen and man mine is turnt all the way up but it is the most wonderful time of the year so I decided to press pause on real life for a while and have a little fun.

Christmas movies make me extremely happy…whomever decided to start making them I love them. I am a hopeless romantic and maybe possibly super cheesy but honestly I love them all.

 All I need is a good happily ever after and  if they include a baby in the ending it for sure goes down as best Christmas movie ever. Oh and add a family coming together it just warms my heart.

I also don’t discriminate I don’t care what color the characters are they all make me happy and warm and fuzzy inside.

I decided to share some of my favs…please believe this is not all of them but these really make me happy and most I have probably watched a LOT of times. Also, in no particular order just how they popped in my head.

Thursday, December 8, 2016

Christmas can be…

A sad time for this single almost 40've heard the song...What do the lonely do at Christmas LOL! I mean I would love to have a date to a fancy Christmas party, ride around to see all the Christmas lights in rich neighborhoods and go to ICE in Opryland (see image below).
This is ICE! I'm going one day

And even more I love to see Christmas through a child’s eye and my own child would be awesome. Having a house with an adult tree and my kid’s tree, picking out gifts for them and seeing their excitement when they open them.

Thursday, December 1, 2016

Allow Me To Reintroduce Myself…

Besides my birth month
December is my favorite
My name is HOV H to the OV…I love that line not sure why but it was so fitting for this post I just had to LOL! 

 It’s December 1st we are 24 days from Christmas and 162 days away from me turning 40 and people always say new month/new goals so I wanted to reintroduce myself and refresh your memory of the purpose of the blog…a reintroduction, a fresh start. And also to get myself back on track!