I am/was so against these things I even talked about people
who had one and/or gave them a mean side-eye.
Let me explain…well
I’m not sure I can I just know I think it’s so annoying when I’m like hey do
you want to grab dinner and someone is like let me see if I’m free. In my head
it is a simple yes or no. I feel like that’s so bougie or you are pretending to
be important and ain’t nobody got time for that.
So, yes I would give major side-eye or be like OMG are you
really that important or do you really have that much to do…girl bye!
Last year I forgot a lot of stuff and/or double booked and
it was bad so I had to come to terms
with the fact that I need a better plan
than my memory. Guess almost 40 means memory
skills suck!
Some people have commented to me just use your cell
phone…yeah that doesn’t work for me because I usually miss the alarm or ignore
it and I still forget. So, I bit the bullet and bought a planner…picture attached. And it is already
filling up.
I would like to apologize to all the people I talked about
and/or side-eyed I didn’t mean it…well I meant it but I didn’t understand. So,
for that I am truly sorry. I thought you were pretending to be important. I now
know you were just keeping your life in order. Clearly I like to live La Vida
Loca LOL!!
Seems the older I get the busier I get which I’m not
complaining because busy keeps my mind off of my 1st World Problems.
This planner is going to make me a better friend, better
employee, better committee member, and just a better person overall. I am glad
I am growing even if it is something as simple as a planner all growth is good
right?
But FYI if you ask me to do something and I say let me check
my planner feel free to talk about me and/or side-eye me…I deserve it.
I am trying really hard just to be a better me in general so
if this stupid planner…yes I still think it’s stupid and I hate pulling my planner out in public
but if it helps me to get my life in order then I’ll keep using itL.
Signed,
Almost 40
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I can relate. No side eye here!
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